Further as in distance: Here is a way to remember. When you go on a long trip you may eventually hit a piece of road that has a bunch of switch backs or U turns. Thus I may remember going fUrther with a U.
Farther as in moving fArther as in from point A and Advancing to part B. The A in Advance partners with the A of fAther.
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Addition:
Further can also mean additional. Envision the u in the word as a cup. You use a cup to add further flour when making bread.